Ffxiv Novice Network
They have a little crown icon by their name. Webyou can actually leave the chat. Webgo to a major hub town and ask in shout for nn invite. Look for the button with a leaf and it shows who is. You can /tell one for.
You need an invite from a mentor. Webif you are a new adventurer, or a returner (someone who hasn't played for a set amount of time) you'll get invited to the novice network right away, but if not, you. Webthe regulars on my nns are also going to shut down harassment or hate speech pretty quickly, and we have people who are openly trans in both with no issues at all.
